True Love, To Steady The Boat In Panic

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I never place my life in the hands of any person in panic-
Not even if that person is my own biological parent.

Decisions made in panic are not judgments,
but instinctive escapes.
Especially in the early morning or evening, when people are at their most vulnerable,
we are often driven by an anxious need to “do something”,
rushing to take part in a two-person game called “filial piety”.
But that game is rarely redemption,
but rather the impulse for collective reincarnation.

Panic is not love; panic is a substitute..
You think you’re making decisions for your loved ones,
but in reality, you’re placing your fear, shame, and sense of responsibility on the line.
Rushing to act isn’t always the best choice,
it’s just that you can’t bear the feeling of helplessness when you remain still.

Therefore, the first step in truly taking responsibility is: Pause.

Pausing is not cold-blooded, it is not avoidance,
but it is avoiding sacrifice.
Let your mind take over your heartbeat, let deep breaths replace impulse,
let calmness be the first thing you do for destiny at this moment.

It’s not “getting back immediately” that proves your love is deep.
Rather, it’s: when the world is sinking, you can still steady the boat.