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没有思想的人是可怕的，ta会把ta家族的思想，带到、强行灌输与你。告诉你怎样的妻子或是丈夫才是好样的，怎样的婚姻结合才能幸福。 有思想的人是可怕的，ta会把ta自己学到、了解的思想，带到、影响给你。告诉你怎样的妻子或是丈夫才是好样的，怎样的婚姻结合才能幸福。 两个没有思想的人结合，将会毁坏一个家庭；两个有思想的，则会拯救第三个。有思想、没有思想，都一样，被影响而产生影响；他们又不同，一个主动，一个被动，如是而已。 People without thoughts are terrible, they will bring their family’s thoughts, to you, and force them on you. They tell you what kind of wife or husband is good, what kind of marriage can be happy. People with thoughts are terrible, they will bring their own learned … Read more

在25岁前都还单着的人，大都还倾向于天真地忠诚于选择喜欢的人，作为自己以后的理想伴侣。是因为还年轻，认为有金力去追求；还是因为还有信仰，所以宁缺毋滥？而之后开始慢慢妥协，转而退求其次。又是因为想要的得不到，或是仍旧不知自己想要的是什么？ 岁月无情， 都怪时间太仓促。还没考虑好或是寻走下一步时，它就给你一记冲拳，把你所认为的信仰全给击碎。你慌不择路，你随波逐流。你迈不过这倒坎，因为多数人也将一样；而少数人仍旧单着，你不愿那样。不是担心后面没有更好的，害怕一直就这样单着；那就是早知道，自己想要的在这世界，根本就不存在？ 注定剩下，如果是这样，请不要单着，请灵魂上学会交流。 People who are still single before 25 tend to be naive and loyal to the people they like, as their ideal partners for the future. Is it because they are young and think they have the power to pursue; or because they still have faith, so … Read more

现在所正遭受的，大是由自己，以后或是先前，应该得到或是已经得到，需要付出、收获的因果律决定。也就是说，以后或是先前，得到或是付出的越多，这种处境就越尴尬；相反就越淡然。 What you are suffering now is largely determined by the law of cause and effect that you should have or have already received, or need to pay or reap, in the future or in the past. That is to say, the more you get or give in the future … Read more

坚持做好一件事情并不容易，因为有很多很多的诱惑，要你去戒除，或是时间长短，但始终有困难、难以戒除……而这些诱惑，真实造就你以后的遗憾。 世界上本就没有太多什么唾手可得的东西，好比知识一样得学会分辨吸收，不能人们告诉你什么，你就相信什么就是什么。越是寒蝉噤若没有辨知的年代，越要学会自我放逐。 It is not easy to persist in doing one thing well, because there are many, many temptations that you have to quit, or the length of time, but there are always difficulties and difficult to quit… And these temptations really create your future regrets. There are not many … Read more

窗外安装来摆放盆景的铁架子。一楼的塑料棚子，二楼上面一直不停落下滴着的水珠。凉完衣服忘关水龙头以及隔壁倒头就睡彻夜鼾声的“猪”。实在都无可救药：生命很贱，人心很蛊。 The iron rack outside the window for placing potted plants. The plastic shed on the first floor, the water droplets that keep falling from the second floor. The faucet that forgets to turn off after drying the clothes, and the “pig” next door who falls asleep and snores all … Read more