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请不要把一个人想的很好，也不要把一个人看得很坏！打的坐出租车，一定开窗留个缝隙。洗澡，也一定留个风口。学会预见！尤其关乎身家性命的事情，务必联想其有可能导致的最坏过程和后果。 一定程度的杞人忧天是非常有必要的！ 真理也难有绝对，从理性的角度出发，学会质疑和用辩证批判的眼光去对待事情。莫让情绪奴役了思想和肉体……世上难得两全法。讲究中庸的道理，现今看来，也还蛮适用于这个社会！ 不是讲就不要去做好事，而是让大家为自己留个见证。防人之心不可无，害人之心，也一定不要有的！ Please do not think of a person very well, and do not think of a person very bad! If you take a taxi, be sure to open the window and leave a gap. When you take a bath, you must leave a tuyere. Learn to foresee! Especially when it comes … Read more

记：似乎突然一晚上，就想好了以后要过的是怎样的日子。 写作、经营自己的网站；出书、售卖发表的书籍。最好能，找到彼此相爱、扶持的人，不用什么都只是一人，去扛。互相包容和理解；人生的道路上，学会共同成长。然后慢慢陪伴着变老，心甘情愿地赴死。 这就是我目前，最大的心愿了吧！ It seems that all of a sudden one night, I have decided what kind of life I want to live in the future. Write and run my own website; publish and sell the books. It will be best to find people who love and support each other, not … Read more

纸（A4纸等） 对折后的A4纸：一张A4纸对折之后是4页，对折50张就是200页，正好相当于一本普通书的厚度。为了便于打孔器打孔，通常是将50张的A4纸分成5份，每份10张、40页。 打孔器和线 （强度区别于普通的针线） 使用打孔器，沿着A4纸折线对纸张进行压孔。仅需要三个装订孔就行了。压完纸张的头两孔后，接着就是将打孔器移动、对齐纸张的中间孔位，接着压出第三个孔。 每次、每份压孔之后，又可以格外将之前已经压好的份数，加在一起，再压一次。即增大孔的大小，方便线进行穿引。 穿线工具（筷子等） 用线装订：用线的方法，网上有很多。具体操作，还是得靠自己去实践。这里，大致提2个用线需要注意的问题（相对、灵活）。 长度：复线通常是2.5米——3米。若是对折两次，四根单线：总长度就是10米——12米。穿孔次数：各孔位间，来回3次。 就是这些了。 Paper (A4 paper, etc.) Folded A4 paper: A folded A4 paper is 4 pages, 50 folded sheets are 200 pages, which is equivalent to the thickness of a normal book. In order to facilitate punching holes with a hole puncher, … Read more

一段感情，经历过后，最害怕的不是两个人没在一起；而是身处漩涡中的两人，没有获得成长。成长了，那么这段感情经历的双方，无论怎样，最后都不要觉得后悔！因为经历了各自的高兴，也经历了彼此所带来的悲伤。 转而学会将剩下的“不济”，看成是圆满之前的结局。尽管结局多时不会圆满……但也并不就意味，可以将这借口，拿来作为不真心去爱、努力付出的理由。 或许，身处漩涡中的两人还未有绝论。也要彼此感谢对方呀！谢谢对方教会自己成长，使自己看到了性格上的缺点。谢谢彼此带来快乐、高兴，乃至悲伤。让人觉得爱情真的是件无比美好的东西。 而，这样真诚的人们，也要自觉自己是幸福的啊！当我们忘掉所有不愉快的经历，只把美好记忆都留存时，爱情就已经到来了！ A relationship, after going through it, the most afraid thing is not that the two people are not together; but the two people in the whirlpool, did not get growth. If they grow up, then both sides of this relationship experience, no matter what, don’t feel … Read more

灵魂伴侣，哪能平常日子里就闯进我们的世界？但是那人一到来，就注定变革我们的人生。不是说他十全十美，他与普通人长得毫无二致。他只是让你思考事物的本质，然后去改变糟糕的现况，完成其他人不曾陪你做到的事情。从此长久以往地住在你心里。 Soulmates, how can they break into our world on ordinary days? But when that person arrives, he is destined to change our lives. It’s not that he’s perfect, he looks no different from ordinary people. He just makes you think about the essence of things, and then change the … Read more

前方的路尽是未可知，一个人走，心虚害怕感到迷茫，且想到放弃，坚持不下来。 可只要怀着憧憬的心就一定能够继续走下去，走回来。 The road ahead is unknown, walking alone, feeling scared and lost, and thinking of giving up, can’t hold on. But as long as you have a longing heart, you will be able to keep going, and come back.

哪家的婆娘又被醉酒的老公欺负，发疯似的哭闹。整个小区都听见，仿佛喝酒的是她，老公只好清醒，小声求饶。 Which wife was bullied by her drunk husband again, crying like crazy. The whole neighborhood heard it, as if she was the one who drank, and her husband had to sober up and beg for mercy.

初三十点下晚自习，一个飘着鹅毛大雪寒冷的冬天，有个少年迈着小步奔跑在回家的路上。少年幻想拥有一辆自己的脚踏车，用脚蹬便不会感觉寒冷。 After the evening self-study at 10 o’clock in the third year of junior high school, on a cold winter day with goose feather snowflakes, a teenager ran home in small steps. The teenager fantasized about having his own bicycle, and he wouldn’t feel cold if he pedaled with his … Read more

如果引导人们的新闻，一直是翻旧账，那么人的思维观念将永远是僵化的！七八年前是这样，现在是这样，将来还是一样！谈话、评论，鼓吹、传播；无知与盲目……没有一点点进步，毕生都在腐朽。 If the news that guides people is always digging up old accounts, then people’s thinking and concepts will always be rigid! It was like this seven or eight years ago, it is like this now, and it will be like this in the future! Talk, comment, tout, spread; ignorance … Read more