People without thoughts are terrible, they will bring their family’s thoughts, to you, and force them on you. They tell you what kind of wife or husband is good, what kind of marriage can be happy. People with thoughts are terrible, they will bring their own learned and understood thoughts, to you, and influence you. They tell you what kind of wife or husband is good, what kind of marriage can be happy.

Two people without thoughts will destroy a family; two people with thoughts will save a third. With or without thoughts, they are the same, influenced and influencing; they are different, one active, one passive, that’s all.