双标就是，高考前、查分后。是，鸡同鸭讲（互动）；是，对牛弹琴（单向输出）。是：打孩子给颗糖，婚前婚后变大样。婆说婆有理……
看不见前路、寻不到方向的时候。不要，寄人以希望；更不要，给予希望再让它破灭。每个人都应有，只属于自己的最低、最高的一套标准——二标。无关ta人看法，只管可以活得：那么一点洒脱，那么一点优雅。
Double standards are, before and after the college entrance examination. It is, chicken speaking with duck (interaction); it is, playing the lute to a cow (one-way output). It is: hitting a child and giving him a candy, changing one’s appearance before and after marriage. The mother-in-law is always right…
When can’t see the way ahead or find the direction. Don’t, pin hopes on others; don’t, give hope and then shatter it. Everyone should have, a set of standards that belong only to themselves – the lowest and the highest – two standards. Regardless of what others think, just live: a little bit free and easy, a little bit elegant.